zhongxiaoge(10:25:36):
你好 鞋子 收到了?吗
鞋子批发城(10:25:56):
你好
zhongxiaoge(10:26:10):
上次 退回来的鞋子收到没?
zhongxiaoge(10:26:51):
在吗?
鞋子批发城(10:27:35):
我在看
zhongxiaoge(10:27:50):
好 好几天前 我 快递给你的
zhongxiaoge(10:28:13):
上次说好 给 换一双的 就是那双 穿了一天就脱胶的
zhongxiaoge(10:28:44):
今天 我都没收到你 消息
zhongxiaoge(10:30:12):
怎么不说话?
鞋子批发城(10:30:29):
我知道了.有好几天了
zhongxiaoge(10:30:31):
给了 好评难道 售后就没了
zhongxiaoge(10:31:46):
如果实在不行 我就只要 采取投诉的手段 我的网络媒体 挺多的 不是在乎这 50块钱 关键是个说法问题
zhongxiaoge(10:33:00):
你 现在 是个什么态度?
鞋子批发城(10:33:26):
我今天给你发来
zhongxiaoge(10:33:45):
我今天 不在公司 给你的是公司地址
鞋子批发城(10:34:43):
今天发,明天到
zhongxiaoge(10:34:58):
明天公司没人 后天才有人
鞋子批发城(10:35:14):
那我可以明天发,后天到
zhongxiaoge(10:35:28):
这次是给新换的吗?
zhongxiaoge(10:35:35):
我不要修的
鞋子批发城(10:37:13):
开胶这样的问题,厂家是不会换新的,因为经过修理后和新的没有任何质量上的差别,
zhongxiaoge(10:37:48):
一天就脱胶 不是质量问题吗? 修 能解决问题?
zhongxiaoge(10:38:08):
而且你也看到了 还不是一般的脱胶 是整个都脱掉了
zhongxiaoge(10:38:40):
还有 如果我这里没给你好评 你是不是会更积极一点
鞋子批发城(10:40:45):
这与评价无关啊,我们处理问题都是很负责很积极的,
zhongxiaoge(10:40:57):
好了 我心理有数了
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Meet people properly.（合适的人） It all starts with the introduction. Then, exchange contact information,
and make sure you know how to pronounce everyone’s names. Exchange phone #s, and find out what hours
are acceptable to call during.

Find things you have in common.（找到共同点） You can almost always find something in common with
another person, and starting from that baseline, it’s much easier to then address issues where you have
differences. This is why cities like professional sports teams, which are socially galvanizing forces that
cut across boundaries of race and wealth. If nothing else, you probably have in common things like the
weather.

Make meeting conditions good.（会议的条件要好，包括环境，人的状态） Have a large surface to write
on, make sure the room is quiet and warm enough, and that there aren’t lots of distractions. Make sure
no one is hungry, cold, or tired. Meet over a meal if you can; food softens a meeting. That’s why they
“do lunch” in Hollywood.

Let everyone talk.（每个人都开口） Even if you think what they’re saying is stupid. Cutting someone
off is rude, and not worth whatever small time gain you might make. Don’t finish someone’s
sentences for him or her; they can do it for themselves. And remember: talking louder or faster
doesn’t make your idea any better.

Check your egos at the door.（不要太自我） When you discuss ideas, immediately label them and
write them down. The labels should be descriptive of the idea, not the originator: “the troll bridge
story,” not “Jane’s story.”

Praise each other.（赞美每个人） Find something nice to say, even if it’s a stretch. Even the
worst of ideas has a silver lining inside it, if you just look hard enough. Focus on the good, praise
it, and then raise any objections or concerns you have about the rest of it.

Put it in writing.（写下来） Always write down who is responsible for what, by when. Be concrete.
Arrange meetings by email, and establish accountability. Never assume that someone’s roommate
will deliver a phone message. Also, remember that “politics is when you have more than 2 people” –
with that in mind, always CC (carbon copy) any piece of email within the group, or to me, to all
members of the group. This rule should never be violated; don’t try to guess what your group
mates might or might not want to hear about.

Be open and honest.（坦诚） Talk with your group members if there’s a problem, and talk with
me if you think you need help. The whole point of this course is that it’s tough to work across
cultures. If we all go into it knowing that’s an issue, we should be comfortable discussing
problems when they arise — after all, that’s what this course is really about. Be forgiving
when people make mistakes, but don’t be afraid to raise the issues when they come up,

Avoid conflict at all costs.（避免归咎，做和事佬） When stress occurs and tempers flare,
take a short break. Clear your heads, apologize, and take another stab at it. Apologize
for upsetting your peers, even if you think someone else was primarily at fault; the goal
is to work together, not start a legal battle over whose transgressions were worse. It
takes two to have an argument, so be the peacemaker.

Phrase alternatives as questions.（尽量问选择题） Instead of “I think we should do A,
not B,” try “What if we did A, instead of B?” That allows people to offer comments,
rather than defend one choice.

原文来自：http://www.cs.cmu.edu/%7Epausch/Randy/teams.htm

《NewWebPick》电子杂志邀请全球500强企业中的企业领袖及资深市场总监，对设计师在商界中如何更好的服务客户，做出了以下十条忠告，希望做为设计师的您，通过这十条了解到普通商业客户真正需要的是什么。
10 Golden Rules for Designers in the Commercial World
设计师决胜商界的十大金科玉律

1. Never engage in an argument or oppose the person who holds your cheque; he/she is probably more concerned about the outcome of your design than yourself.
永不与付款给你的人争论或对抗，他/她们肯定比你更关心设计后的结果。

2. Things are not design oriented; your design will first and foremost be used to deliver a message to the market for your client, before it is an item of personal artistic expression.
作品并非设计主导的，在为艺术家表达自己之前，你的设计首先及主要为你的客户用于传递一个市场信息。

3. Communicate patiently with your clients. Remember, they are not designers, so use their language to get your idea across.
要有耐性和你的客户沟通。紧记他们并非设计师，故须用他们的语言来阐述你的观点。

4. I believe there is meaning and a story behind your designs and works, but if you don’t put effort into telling me, how will I fully understand?
我相信每个你的设计和作品背后都有一个意思和故事，但你不用心去说明，我又如何可完全明白呢?

5. Respect the deadline; meeting it improves your credibility and will impact your career development.
尊重期限时间，做到将可改善你的可信任度和增进你的事业发展。

6. People prefer to talk to someone who is presentable, meaning clean and tidy. Stylish doesn’t have to mean unclean and untidy, do you catch my drift?
人们喜欢与注重外型的人倾谈，意思是清洁及整齐。型格并非是肮脏及混乱，你能领略我的意思吗?

7. Punctuality is important, it is important to anyone who is professional, which includes designers.
守时是十分重要的，特别是专业人员，专业人员包括设计师。

8. Never get angry during the price negotiation process, it’s just business and nothing to do with insulting your work. There is no reason for them to do so anyway, if you really think about it.
不要在讨论价钱过程中动怒，这只是商业而己，他们并非在羞辱你的作品。你要知道，他们并没有任何理由去做此事的。

9. Your reputation can be proved by business references or winning awards. Don’t forget to win more awards, because it is what customers believe in.
你的名气是来自商业推介或获取奖项。不要忘记去获取更多奖项，它会使顾客更相信你。

10. Never, ever, attempt to copy others’ designs for any reason at all. It is a death sentence to any designer.
无论任何理由，永不要企图抄袭别人的设计。这会是任何设计师死亡之路。

安装方法详见：http://forum.ubuntu.org.cn/viewtopic.php?t=48369

I had gtk-qt-engine installed. I removed it and it worked!

Here is a thread that resolved it for me:

https://bugs.launchpad.net/bugs/138726

sudo apt-get remove gtk-qt-engine

执行以上这个命令删除 gtk-qt-engine以后再执行gnome-appearance-properties就一切正常了。